School age

Use play to reconnect with your child

preschooler meltdown



You know those days when your precious little cherub is just driving you nuts? When you are about to lose it, and in your defense, she really isn’t at her best either?

Yesterday was one of those days. I was at home with the three kids (five, three, and one and a half), and the oldest had gotten really whiny. She was wanting some screen time and it just wasn’t in the schedule at the time.

“But Momma, I’m missing my game time…”

“Please let me play?”

I tell her it’s not time right now.

“Just please let me play?”

I say, “I’ve already told you no.”

“I just can’t think of anything else to do.”

Getting irritated, I say, “You can either play or help me put up laundry.”

Ensue crying. “I don’t want to do either of those things.  I only want to play my game!”

And so it went on.  My patience was wearing super thin.

It was just after Halloween, and both my little girls had chosen to be witches (they were adorable, by the way). Bella Bean, my three-year old, had put on her witch costume while all this whining was going down, and kept walking into the middle of the swath of folded laundry surrounding me as I was trying to get it all put away (also a pet peeve of mine). Suddenly, I had an idea to try to help everyone get it back together. (more…)

Toys for child development

We recently discussed what toys aren’t so great for your kids, but we didn’t go into a lot of detail about what toys are likely to lead to engaged play.  So let’s talk about some of our favorite toys here, plus alternatives!

For many toys, I’ll show both a more affordable option for a toy and the splurge.  I’ll tell you which we have for our kids (even if it’s the cheaper version!). Sometimes the splurge is totally worth it, and sometimes the more economical option works just as well for us!

Full disclosure: I’ll get a small percentage of any sales made through these links, but don’t worry, it won’t cost you any extra!

Dolls

Whether you have a boy or girl, it’s good to have a doll for your child.  Dolls let children practice empathy and caregiving and give children an outlet to explore emotions. I know it’s soooo much easier to find little girl dolls than little boy dolls, so I’m putting a link to the little guy that we bought Budrow Wilson for his first birthday. He’s super cute and all three kids enjoy him!

Blocks

girl playing with wooden blocks

Want to help your kids with hand-eye coordination?  Let her play with blocks!

Want to build your child’s imagination?  Let him play with blocks!

Want to build your child’s spatial reasoning (in other words, to help them think about what 3D objects look like all the way around)? Let her play with blocks!

 

Want to help your child’s language development? Play blocks with him! Seriously, blocks are some of the best toys out there for child development. There’s lots of options out there. These are the kind we have!

Toy cars

Every little one (girl or boy!) needs something small with wheels that they can roll around.  Here’s a few choices.

The economical version

The O Ball car. The soft top is easy for little hands to hold. My toddler scoots all around the floor with this!

The splurge

To be honest, this little wooden car isn’t much more expensive.  Also easy to hold for toddlers and preschoolers!

Small characters

It’s so fun to have little people to play with.  Kids can “imagine into” them and pretend all different scenarios with small characters. I personally chose people without facial expressions to keep them more open-ended, but it’s up to what you want!

The economical version

I painted these myself! It was fun and easy. Just paint pegs like these with nontoxic stain or acrylic.

The splurge

Grimm’s makes this set of twelve colorful peg people already painted!  The stains are certified nontoxic, so no worries!

Rainbow stacker

Also made by Grimm’s, I can’t get over how beautiful and fun this rainbow stacker is!  This toy is a bit more of an “investment piece,” but if you splurge on one toy, I think this should be it!  I’ll be honest, this is the toy I have most fun with myself.  The colors and symmetry are really soothing to me, and it’s just pleasant to make designs with it. This set of rainbow-colored pieces can be arranged in endless ways for all sorts of fun.

Magnetic tiles

These colorful tiles have magnets on each edge so they can stick together.  Your kids will be able to make great towers and flat figures with them!

The economical version

These are the tiles we have.  They’re made by Discovery Kids and the kids all love them (from 1.5 to 5 years old)!

The splurge

This Picasso Tiles set is a lot bigger (100 pieces!), plus they’re clear in case you want to do some light board play. After seeing squabbles firsthand, I’d suggest a bigger set like this.

I hope this list of some of our favorite toys gives you some great ideas in case there are any “gaps” of toy types in your collection.  Check these out (just in time to get ahead of Christmas shopping) and let me know which are your favorites! 

By the way, are you having a hard time getting your children to share all those toys they have? Why not try having them take turns? Sign up to get a free printable (to stick on your fridge!) to give you the exact script I use to help my children take turns with toys!

How to incorporate minimalism with your kids’ toys

clean play room


You know those days when your kid whines, “I’m sooooo boooooored!  There’s nothing to do!” and you think to yourself, You little ingrate, there’s toys all over the place.  Just pick one!

Oh wait, is that just me?

What if I told you that this kind of problem can be at least partially solved without having to go buy a bunch of new toys?

What about those days when you walk into the house and are like, “Oh em gee, there is stuff everywhere.  All these toys are gonna drive me insane!”

Oh wait, is that just me?

What if I told you that this kind of problem can be at least partially solved without getting rid of everything your kid owns?

In fact, what if I told you that these two issues have the exact same solution?

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How your child can help with meal prep (tasks by age)

preschooler knife skills

Letting kids help you in the kitchen can be hard, it’s true. But even though allowing littles to “help” you in the kitchen can be difficult physically and mentally, but the end result is worth it!

Here’s ideas for what your about what your kids can actually do for meal prep by age.

Meal prep tasks for young toddlers

I let each of my kids get involved in meal prep around 18 months old.  They only do really simple things, and I have to be right on top of them, but I want them to get the idea that cooking is fun!

Budrow stirring up ingredients for a casserole.

I have found that when they’re this tiny, they’re too short to reach the counter, even with a stool!  Plus, they’re still pretty squirmy.  Putting them in their high chair/booster seat solves the problem by letting them reach either the table or their little tray.

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